Their tongues are growing longer with the generations. Evolutionary biology.
I know all too well and while this is not something new it is really reaching a sickening level. For example I have seen a women openly say how she purposefully is keeping her man down due to insecurity that he will leave her/attract other women, the day before her wedding, and that the groom won't be getting any on the wedding night because she will be too tired... Mind you not gossiping with her close girlfriends either. What kind of culture have we reached where this behavior is acceptable?
Wouldn't you want your wife to be, feel and look her best always? She would the same... There has to be some bloody trust in a relationship otherwise why the hell are you in it for. These thoughts of doubt and worries make a person miserable and choke the partner.
Having a man you can depend on is a gift from the Lord. At least you'd know that he's always gonna be there by your side to pick you up each time you fall off your heels. I believe that being independent is a must for every female, she needs to have all the means to rely on herself and not need a man in her life to look after her, however 'need' is not the same as 'choice'. She could be whatever she wants to be and still have the opportunity to rely on him when she chooses to. If we promote equality in responsibilities, we rid the male of his 'responsibility' as a husband and father. That does women no good. It puts pressure on the wife and deprives her of her female biological right to 'take a break' when she physically or emotionally needs to.Feminists lecture day and night about how they don't want to be dependent & under protection of men. But ultimately it boils down to an unhealthy level of control over male expressions of power and agency, which is the same as what traditionalists do only much worse. Any such expressions are perceived as a threat and that is why many women try to control their men and make them give up their hobbies, their social circles, or any semblance of independence.