Divorce cases up by 101% since 2006

Aoune32!

Aoune32!

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بالأرقام: أعداد هائلة لحالات الطلاق في لبنان.. 101 في المئة


تضاعف عدد حالات الطلاق المسجّلة في لبنان بنسبة 101 في المئة، بحسب صحيفة "الأخبار".

وأشارت الصحيفة الى ان "8850 عقد طلاق سُجّل عام 2017 في المديرية العامةللأحوال الشخصية التابعة لوزارة الداخلية، في مقابل 4388 عقد طلاق عام 2006، علماً بأن هذه أرقام غير نهائية. إذ أن طلبات طلاق كثيرة تنتظر في المحاكم الشرعية التي غالباً ما تماطل في بتّها، ما يرفع النسبة تلقائياً. كما أنها لا تشمل حالات الهجر، وخصوصاً لدى الطوائف المسيحية".

الطلاق في لبنان "موضة" رائجة.. ما يحصل خطير جداً!


وقد سجّلت محافظة لبنان الشمالي أعلى نسبة طلاق بين المحافظات بلغت 1840 عقداً عام 2017، تليها بيروت (1486)، فالبقاع (1405) وجبل لبنان (1348) والنبطية (1270) والجنوب (1231). ورغم أن الأرقام لا تفصّل التوزع الطائفي للزيادة في نسبة الطلاق، إلا أن التوزّع المناطقي يشير بوضوح إلى أن معظم عقود الطلاق المسجلة تعود الى أتباع الديانة الإسلامية، وهذا متوقّع نظراً إلى صعوبة الطلاق لدى الطوائف المسيحية.

النسبة المرتفعة لحالات الطلاق لا تنسجم والزيادة المسجّلة في نسبة الزيجات في الفترة نفسها (41 في المئة)، علماً بأن محافظة لبنان الشمالي حلت أولى أيضاً بين المحافظات في عدد عقود الزواج المسجّلة (8289)، يليها البقاع (5816)، فجبل لبنان (5059) وبيروت (4417) والجنوب (3737) والنبطية (3616).

وتقع معظم حالات الطلاق بين حديثي الزواج، وتتكثّف في العامين الأولين من الارتباط، بحسب ما يؤكد القاضي الشرعي في المحكمة الجعفرية الشيخ أسد اللهالحرشي لـ"الأخبار". والأسباب عديدة، "منها الأوضاع الاقتصادية السيئة التي تحمّل الشريكين أعباء فوق طاقتهما، وعدم التكافؤ في المنزلة الاجتماعية، وعدم التكافؤ بالوعي والثقافة"، فضلاً عن «عدم قيام أحد الزوجين بواجباته الزوجية وسوء الخلق واستغلال الزوج لمال زوجته العاملة والعقم وتعاطي القمار والمخدرات".

تردي الأوضاع الاقتصادية وزيادة معدلات الفقر وارتفاع نسبة البطالة ترتبط ارتباطاً وثيقاً بالأسباب التي تؤدي إلى هذا الارتفاع الملحوظ في حالات الطلاق، بحسب السيد حسن فضل الله (باحث اجتماعي وعالم دين). وهو ما يمكن استنتاجه من الإحصاءات. إذ إن عدد عقود الطلاق مجتمعة في محافظات الأطراف، حيث تقل فرص العمل والظروف الاقتصادية أكثر صعوبة (الشمال والبقاع والجنوب والنبطية)، يشكّل نحو 65 في المئة من عقود الطلاق المسجّلة. ويوضح فضل الله أن "كثيراً من الأزواج يجدون أنفسهم، بعد الزواج، أمام أعباء مادية ضخمة، بدءاً من تأمين المسكن في ظل ارتفاع حاد في أسعار العقارات وبدل الإيجارات، فضلاً عن تأمين احتياجات البيت من أثاث ومصاريف وأقساط مدرسية واستشفاء، وما يواكب ذلك من ارتفاع هائل في أسعار السلع الضرورية وغير الضرورية، وكل ذلك من دون وجود أي أفق واضح للحل". كما أن "تغير منظومة القيم في المجتمع اللبناني وتبدل سلّم الأولويات لدى الفرد يسهمان في ارتفاع الطلاق. إذ تغلغلت الثقافة الفردانية التي تتمظهر باهتمام كل فرد بحريته وبعيش حياته واستمتاعه بها على حساب ثقافة تغلّب الجانب الأسري".

بالأرقام: أعداد هائلة لحالات الطلاق في لبنان.. 101 في المئة

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  • The_FPMer

    The_FPMer

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    Is anyone even surprised? Country on the brink of total bankruptcy, people are being laid off left right and center, religious clerics are too busy making money than to educate the public on things that matter. Meanwhile our politicians are bickering over cabinets. Lebanon is being destroyed from within by the known saboteurs. Lebanon that was created by Howayek and the French, a land of solace for the Lebanese Christian population, is coming to an end while the "religion of peace" waits for the proper moment to oust the natives for good this time. Shame.
     
    Indie

    Indie

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    With the current culture of narcissism, it can only get worse.
     
    Isabella

    Isabella

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    What do you expect when people get married just to sleep together without really getting to know each other!! People meet, start dating then like a month or two later they're engaged and planning a wedding, buying furniture for their home and the entire getting to know you phase takes a back seat for the more pressing matters of finding a dress and a venue and who to invite... A year or two later they're divorced but of course they had a kid in the meantime who now gets to go back and forth between mommy and daddy!

    And even if they did get to know each other and were completely in love you have issues that put a strain on every relationship magnified in Lebanon... things like money issues with macho men refusing to let their wives work and failing to provide solely for their families, like working women failing to care for their children on their own since husbands don't help much in our society and if they changed a diaper bi rabbho alla jmile, like in laws interfering in their children and so's day to day lives and how they raise their kids, etc.

    People just have unrealistic expectations for what it takes to build a life with another person! It's not the house you have to buy or the furniture you have to get, or even the car you have to have, it's the home you build together.
     
    Aoune32!

    Aoune32!

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    What do you expect when people get married just to sleep together without really getting to know each other!! People meet, start dating then like a month or two later they're engaged and planning a wedding, buying furniture for their home and the entire getting to know you phase takes a back seat for the more pressing matters of finding a dress and a venue and who to invite... A year or two later they're divorced but of course they had a kid in the meantime who now gets to go back and forth between mommy and daddy!

    And even if they did get to know each other and were completely in love you have issues that put a strain on every relationship magnified in Lebanon... things like money issues with macho men refusing to let their wives work and failing to provide solely for their families, like working women failing to care for their children on their own since husbands don't help much in our society and if they changed a diaper bi rabbho alla jmile, like in laws interfering in their children and so's day to day lives and how they raise their kids, etc.

    People just have unrealistic expectations for what it takes to build a life with another person! It's not the house you have to buy or the furniture you have to get, or even the car you have to have, it's the home you build together.
    There are alot of issues that married people are facing. Some of them is made by their hands. People dont have patience anymore and are not willing to work on their marriage.
     
    Isabella

    Isabella

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    There are alot of issues that married people are facing. Some of them is made by their hands. People dont have patience anymore and are not willing to work on their marriage.
    It's not just patience, I'm looking at some of my married friends in Lebanon it's nuts how they're living their lives! They work, and cook and clean and care for their children... Their husbands barely play with their kids when they're smiling but as soon as they start fussing or crying, it's get him dear wife! People are still living their lives as if women are subordinates for the male providers whereas they are also providing for their homes and with that comes certain expectations for the men! W heyde I'm just talking about Christians where women enjoy more freedom when compared to Muslims, where it's possible for the man to wash the dishes once in a while :p

    This dichotomy between rights and obligations and what's expected of either one of the sexes is what is causing an increase in divorces, or at least contributing heavily.
     
    Aoune32!

    Aoune32!

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    It's not just patience, I'm looking at some of my married friends in Lebanon it's nuts how they're living their lives! They work, and cook and clean and care for their children... Their husbands barely play with their kids when they're smiling but as soon as they start fussing or crying, it's get him dear wife! People are still living their lives as if women are subordinates for the male providers whereas they are also providing for their homes and with that comes certain expectations for the men! W heyde I'm just talking about Christians where women enjoy more freedom when compared to Muslims, where it's possible for the man to wash the dishes once in a while :p

    This dichotomy between rights and obligations and what's expected of either one of the sexes is what is causing an increase in divorces, or at least contributing heavily.
    Sa7.
    100% but this is not the fault only of the man. This is both people. It takes two for marriage to succeed. Any khalal bel 3ale2a mabtezbot.
     
    Dark Angel

    Dark Angel

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    amazing how far off you guys are from the real issues plaguing marriages. probably that is why the numbers of divorces are so high. you cannot figure things out anymore.
     
    The_FPMer

    The_FPMer

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    amazing how far off you guys are from the real issues plaguing marriages. probably that is why the numbers of divorces are so high. you cannot figure things out anymore.
    Can you explain please?
     
    Dark Angel

    Dark Angel

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    Can you explain please?
    the leading cause for divorces is not the economical situation nor the political situation and certainly not the gender roles. it is simply that many people are not as mature and wise as they ought to be, and more importantly they are not as understanding and tolerant as they should be. people should be smarter when it comes to selecting the person they want to spend the rest of their lives with. more to it, relationships should possess a transcending cause in order to succeed. relationships, families, and marriages can only grow in an atmosphere of mutual love, support and respect. it is not about the furniture, the size of the tv, and going out. some people can lead a truly happy life and happy marriages without having much to rely on, while others who possess almost everything can have the most bitter marriages and it will turn their lives into living hell.
     
    Aoune32!

    Aoune32!

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    the leading cause for divorces is not the economical situation nor the political situation and certainly not the gender roles. it is simply that many people are not as mature and wise as they ought to be, and more importantly they are not as understanding and tolerant as they should be. people should be smarter when it comes to selecting the person they want to spend the rest of their lives with. more to it, relationships should possess a transcending cause in order to succeed. relationships, families, and marriages can only grow in an atmosphere of mutual love, support and respect. it is not about the furniture, the size of the tv, and going out. some people can lead a truly happy life and happy marriages without having much to rely on, while others who possess almost everything can have the most bitter marriages and it will turn their lives into living hell.
    We already know this and some members already 2alo heike. You havent said anything new. The economic factor also plays a role and especially these days. When one cannot feed his children or doesnt masalan have the means to have a comfortable life it creates stress in life and couples instead of actually enjoying their lives they are running trying just to feed their kids. Hence the responsibilities are too much and they feel overwhelmed.
     
    mrsrx

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    Divorces are up because the taboo is broken! Welcome to the future...

    In the past it was a horrible shame to be divorced for both parties as well as the Maronite church made it harder. Today if you are not happy and if things are not going well people divorce (or change to syriac/latin if you are maronite and do it)!
    Yes they should not have gotten married in the first place but do not forget in our backwards country some poor people are being forced to marry their cousins and others sold off at 15 as well as the the less horrifying but still bad the social stigma of peer pressure for marriage.
    These things happen in our country and breaking the taboo and giving a way out for people that are unhappy in their love lives a second chance is a good thing!
    I personally do not believe in the sanctity of marriage but some do and i understand but for me divorces with no children is like a boyfriend and girlfriend breaking up and i do not have no numbers on that but taking a wild guess...its high. The only cases where its really sad is when the parents do not put their children first even when going through a divorce and isolating the child and playing favorites!

    Unhappy people are angry people ....
     
    Dark Angel

    Dark Angel

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    We already know this and some members already 2alo heike. You havent said anything new. The economic factor also plays a role and especially these days. When one cannot feed his children or doesnt masalan have the means to have a comfortable life it creates stress in life and couples instead of actually enjoying their lives they are running trying just to feed their kids. Hence the responsibilities are too much and they feel overwhelmed.
    and they will be able to feed their children after the divorce? there is always an extreme amount of responsibility involved regardless of the economical situation. the reality however is that divorce rates generally increase with wealth.
     
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    Aoune32!

    Aoune32!

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    and they will be able to feed their children after the divorce eh? there is always an extreme amount of responsibility involved regardless of the economical situation. the reality however is that divorce rates generally increase with wealth.
    W min 2al that divorce is the way? All i am saying is that for a person to be financially stable ahsan mn 7ada mano stable financially. You can be financially stable and still have a loving marriage and raise your children. Less stress on the family.
     
    Dark Angel

    Dark Angel

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    W min 2al that divorce is the way? All i am saying is that for a person to be financially stable ahsan mn 7ada mano stable financially. You can be financially stable and still have a loving marriage and raise your children. Less stress on the family.
    i am not saying the opposite, i am just pointing that the data at hands indicate that the majority of divorces occur in wealthier families, for a multitude of reasons. thus while a poor financial situation might be a cause for stress it is not necessarily a cause for divorce. the reasons are usually elsewhere.
     
    Dark Angel

    Dark Angel

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    I personally do not believe in the sanctity of marriage but some do and i understand but for me divorces with no children is like a boyfriend and girlfriend breaking up and i do not have no numbers on that but taking a wild guess...its high. The only cases where its really sad is when the parents do not put their children first even when going through a divorce and isolating the child and playing favorites!

    Unhappy people are angry people ....
    do you believe in the sanctity of anything other than marriage and family?
     
    Aoune32!

    Aoune32!

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    i am not saying the opposite, i am just pointing that the data at hands indicate that the majority of divorces occur in wealthier families, for a multitude of reasons. thus while a poor financial situation might be a cause for stress it is not necessarily a cause for divorce. the reasons are usually elsewhere.
    Ofcourse there are many reasons that lead to divorce but money is no 2 on the list.
    10 Most Common Reasons for Divorce | Marriage.Com
     
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