That's why they say there is a thin line between love and hate I guess!I never said love was a coup de foudre, I hated my husband 12 years ago when we first met, yet he is truly the love of my life!
And yes that's what love is, it starts with mutual understanding, friendship, then overcoming hardship...
However the right person is never someone that ticks all your boxes, the right person is someone who makes you realise your boxes are incredibly silly! Like for example I wanted someone who would always challenge me on my list, you know what happens with someone who always challenges you? You fight all the bloody time!
@Indie go get yourself a stiff whiskey, find a comfortable chair and think back 12 years ago to remember a guy you hated a lot, once you zero in on one, find his number and give him a call