Fun Traits In A Partner

Indie

Indie

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Dont worry we’ll get u a russian blue cat, they’re a soecial breed for allergic people :p

Also they’re cute AF!
I didn't know these ones are ok for allergic people! I want one!!! <3
 
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  • Iron Maiden

    Iron Maiden

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    I didn't know these ones are ok for allergic people! I want one!!! <3
    I fidnt know that too untill twi weeks ago, was visiting my friend and i saw this cute cat at his place, andbu was like dude you’e akkergic to cats since the invention if the wheel!! And he told ne that this breed is hypoallergenic and great fir people if his condition, also hes armenian :lol:

    So yea if u’ve got 2000$ to spemd on a cat, they’re worty it!



    I want one :(
     
    Indie

    Indie

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    Awww...my heart! Thanks for this tip @Iron Maiden :)

     
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    joseph_lubnan

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    I fidnt know that too untill twi weeks ago, was visiting my friend and i saw this cute cat at his place, andbu was like dude you’e akkergic to cats since the invention if the wheel!! And he told ne that this breed is hypoallergenic and great fir people if his condition, also hes armenian :lol:

    So yea if u’ve got 2000$ to spemd on a cat, they’re worty it!



    I want one :(
    Google says they're about 600 bucks

    Besides hook her up with your Armenian friend you'd be doubling up on the fun :) and for free :)

    And @Isabella can pay for their dinner :)
     
    Isabella

    Isabella

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    How can u hate someone than marry them?? Women are so random man i swear..
    Hey he didn't like me much either! We didn't know each other, I thought he was arrogant and he thought I was self absorbed. We had a friend in common and always saw each other but never actually had a conversation until 6 years ago where we met again in Paris :p
     
    Isabella

    Isabella

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    I fidnt know that too untill twi weeks ago, was visiting my friend and i saw this cute cat at his place, andbu was like dude you’e akkergic to cats since the invention if the wheel!! And he told ne that this breed is hypoallergenic and great fir people if his condition, also hes armenian :lol:

    So yea if u’ve got 2000$ to spemd on a cat, they’re worty it!



    I want one :(
    Check shelters, spa and whatnot, if you're looking for specific breeds they'll keep you on a waiting list and call you when one is available
     
    AtheistForYeezus

    AtheistForYeezus

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    I fidnt know that too untill twi weeks ago, was visiting my friend and i saw this cute cat at his place, andbu was like dude you’e akkergic to cats since the invention if the wheel!! And he told ne that this breed is hypoallergenic and great fir people if his condition, also hes armenian :lol:

    So yea if u’ve got 2000$ to spemd on a cat, they’re worty it!



    I want one :(
    Such a beautiful color. As if lit by moonlight
     
    𓍝𓂀𓄃𓇼

    𓍝𓂀𓄃𓇼

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    Compatibility with Indie...

    ❌ for NOT having the deal breaker.
    ✅ for having the deal breaker.


    Dealbreakers (brace yourselves :p)...

    - Any kind of abuse: verbal, physical, or emotional. ✅

    - Smoking, doing drugs, addiction to alcohol. ✅

    - Playing computer games, watching sports excessively, gambling. ✅

    - Watching porn, going to strip clubs, being obsessed with sex, cheating. ✅

    - Being manipulative. ✅

    - Wasting your time: flirting one day and acting like just a friend the next, treating you like a "bouche-trou" and only showing up when it's convenient for him. ✅

    - Having a female best friend. If you're not your significant other's best friend then what are you for, cooking and cleaning? ✅

    - Not viewing the relationship as an equal partnership.✅

    - Not encouraging and helping you in achieving your dreams, putting roadblocks in your way, and making your life more difficult. ❌

    - Not caring about what you need and want; only about what he can get out of the relationship. ❌

    - Taking for granted the sacrifices you make for the relationship. .✅

    - Not knowing how to respectfully communicate through disagreements. .✅

    - Not giving you breathing space or privacy; or, the opposite, being distant and completely guarded. ❌

    - Being self-righteous and unforgiving. Thinking he's better than other people. .✅

    - Thinking he's above caring for his appearance. Especially if he expects you to care for yours. Getting upset if you give him style tips and stubbornly sticking to his outdated, sloppy clothes. ✅

    - On the opposite end of the spectrum, being obsessively vain and flashy with his style, car, house, etc. ❌

    - Not caring about fitness, health, and proper nutrition; or, being obsessed with it for purely appearance related purposes, such as building huge muscles. ✅

    - Spending most of his time in front of the computer or TV screen. Ignoring real life and people to spend time on his phone. ❌

    - Too lazy to work on improving himself physically, intellectually, culturally, professionally, emotionally, socially, or spiritually. ✅

    - Being boring. Not biting into life with energy. Closed-minded to interesting experiences and adventures. ✅

    - Being dirty, unorganized, having bad manners, and disgusting habits. ❌

    - Being cheap; or, the opposite, irresponsible with money. ✅

    - Being cheesy. I'm romantic but everything in good taste and within its limits. ✅

    - Travelling for work. ✅
     
    Mrsrx

    Mrsrx

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    Biggest deal breakers for me back when I was dating were: 1. Boring, 2. Orders milk and cornflakes in a restaurant, 3. Asked me if studying physics meant I was going to be working in a gym, seriously! 4. Guys who put other people down, are rude and disrespectful to service people, etc. 5. Any guy who insists on paying because "he's a gentleman"...
    This was a gem-post...so i'll click gem! (and that is how cringe is done!)
     
    Orangina

    Orangina

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    @Iron Maiden that's it?! Come on you can do better! I'll set the example :p

    Traits I want in a partner:

    - Same religion and values as me
    - Is either from the same culture as me, or fully embraces my culture and roots
    - Has a similar lifestyle and goals to mine
    - Faithful and trustworthy
    - Kindhearted but not naive or a doormat
    - Intelligent but not arrogant
    - Wise and emotionally mature
    - Financially stable but not a workaholic
    - Courageous in front of challenges
    - A good father
    - Respects my family
    - Attractive, classy, and has good manners

    Dealbreakers (brace yourselves :p)...

    - Any kind of abuse: verbal, physical, or emotional.

    - Smoking, doing drugs, addiction to alcohol.

    - Playing computer games, watching sports excessively, gambling.

    - Watching porn, going to strip clubs, being obsessed with sex, cheating.

    - Being manipulative.

    - Wasting your time: flirting one day and acting like just a friend the next, treating you like a "bouche-trou" and only showing up when it's convenient for him.

    - Having a female best friend. If you're not your significant other's best friend then what are you for, cooking and cleaning?

    - Not viewing the relationship as an equal partnership.

    - Not encouraging and helping you in achieving your dreams, putting roadblocks in your way, and making your life more difficult.

    - Not caring about what you need and want; only about what he can get out of the relationship.

    - Taking for granted the sacrifices you make for the relationship.

    - Not knowing how to respectfully communicate through disagreements.

    - Not giving you breathing space or privacy; or, the opposite, being distant and completely guarded.

    - Being self-righteous and unforgiving. Thinking he's better than other people.

    - Thinking he's above caring for his appearance. Especially if he expects you to care for yours. Getting upset if you give him style tips and stubbornly sticking to his outdated, sloppy clothes.

    - On the opposite end of the spectrum, being obsessively vain and flashy with his style, car, house, etc.

    - Not caring about fitness, health, and proper nutrition; or, being obsessed with it for purely appearance related purposes, such as building huge muscles.

    - Spending most of his time in front of the computer or TV screen. Ignoring real life and people to spend time on his phone.

    - Too lazy to work on improving himself physically, intellectually, culturally, professionally, emotionally, socially, or spiritually.

    - Being boring. Not biting into life with energy. Closed-minded to interesting experiences and adventures.

    - Being dirty, unorganized, having bad manners, and disgusting habits.

    - Being cheap; or, the opposite, irresponsible with money.

    - Being cheesy. I'm romantic but everything in good taste and within its limits.

    - Travelling for work.
    does this person exist in real life?
     
    Indie

    Indie

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    does this person exist in real life?
    Maybe not 100% but there are men who have a lot of these qualities.

    Most of the things I listed are basic qualities that everyone should have or strive to have. I'm not asking for a billionaire who looks like a model. Is being caring, responsible, and having good manners and values too much to ask for?
     
    dyyyy

    dyyyy

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    Hey he didn't like me much either! We didn't know each other, I thought he was arrogant and he thought I was self absorbed. We had a friend in common and always saw each other but never actually had a conversation until 6 years ago where we met again in Paris :p
    He's arrogant and you're self absorbed.... I can imagine how an argument between you two goes :D
     
    NewLeb

    NewLeb

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    The conversations in the "Ladies and Gents" thread gave me the idea for this thread.

    What qualities do you look for in a girlfriend / boyfriend or spouse? What are turn-offs or dealbreakers?
    The conversations in the "Ladies and Gents" thread gave me the idea for this thread.

    What qualities do you look for in a girlfriend / boyfriend or spouse? What are turn-offs or dealbreakers?
    Turn on: a girl who’s actually feminine, and hasn’t been turned into another leftist-indoctrinated dyke who’s so proud of her stupid bachelors in engineering.

    You don’t find women like these in college or in the usual work force, unless they’re stripping on the side or something.
     
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