Orange Room Supporter
It's only natural to act differently on a first date and a few years down the line.
Unfortunately, we are programmed to hold stupidly high standards that are not conceivable.
That's why certain women would only go out with make-up on, their hair done and wearing their best outfits during the first few weeks/months of a relationship.
But after a few months, they would go out wearing a t-shirt, or baggy jeans and pass off on the makeup a few times.
If your partner can't accept that, i.e: you as a human being in your natural and normal state, then there's something seriously wrong.
It means your partner is with a newly built image of you, and not the real you...because the real you was not born with make-up on or wearing high heels
I have no issues with not wearing makeup or heels. That's different.
I can even overlook it if some body function gets activated by accident once in a while.
But someone who doesn't even attempt to be discreet with them and subjects you to his disgusting habits all day long is a slob and a turn off.